-How to Tell if He’s the Wrong Guy for You-

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After dating several guys, there seems to be some characteristics throughout the dating relationship that prove he’s just not the guy for you. Your gut instinct about a guy is probably right. Here are some situations during dating that are telling you, he’s the WRONG GUY for you.

You meet and are unbearably attracted to him. You flirt, exchange #’s, and you think you’re a shoe in. Nope, this is the situation with the typical bad boy. Your texting a lot and one of you brings up “hanging out sometime.” If he says this he’s probably afraid of commitment and very unsure of if he even really likes. Plus, he’s probably dating other girls too.

If you ever (usually takes a long time with a bad boy) get that chance to “hang out”, you’re bouncing off the walls with excitement and nervousness. The day finally comes and he doesn’t even take you on a date. He takes you along to run his errands and maybe you’ll grab a sandwich from Subway or a snack from Taco Bell.

Girls if a guy mistreats you this way, RUN as far and as FAST as you can the other way! I’m not saying that having a cheap date is a bad thing or not to be thankful or polite. If he treats you amazingly and takes you to somewhere affordable than give him the benefit of the doubt. But if he’s running errands with you the first time you’re hanging out, he’s not the one.

If your aren’t attracted to him in the first place, don’t date him. You will just give him false hope and usually the situation will end up really bad. There is some cases where you can fall hard for a guy with a great personality even if the chemistry isn’t all there, but be very careful in these situations.

If you’re dating a guy and he never wants to be alone with only you. It’s great to meet and hang out with his friends and family often, but if this is the only thing he wants to do, he’s just too immature for a romantic relationship.

The awkward date is also a sign the relationship shouldn’t happen. With some people you will be okay with silence and with others it’s just awkward. Usually, if you go on an awkward date with someone and keep trying, the second and third date are awkward too. My advice for this is to just get through the date. If at the end of the date they say something like “I hope we can do this again sometime.” Reply with “Thank you for everything, but I just don’t feel like our personalities fit together well, I hope you understand.”